Residents Plead With Royal Oak Leaders: Protect Human Rights
After nearly an hour of public comment, commissioners pass a resolution to draft an ordinance to protect the LGBT community and others from discrimination.
Monday night Royal Oak City Commissioners voted to create a "welcome mat" for the community by becoming the next Michigan city to enact a human rights ordinance.
Commissioners voted unanimously to have City Attorney Dave Gillam draft a broad ordinance that will protect against discrimination in employment, housing or public accommodation on the basis of height, weight, marital status, source of income, family responsibility, education association, sexual orientation, gender identity or HIV status. In doing so, Royal Oak will join Ann Arbor, Birmingham, Detroit, East Lansing, Ferndale, Grand Rapids, Kalamazoo, Lansing, Saginaw, Traverse City and Ypsilanti in enacting a human rights ordinance.
Why a human rights ordinance?
The discussion of a human rights ordinance was requested by City Commissioners Jim Rasor and Kyle DuBuc.
“Royal Oak is a diverse community,” said Rasor by phone before Monday's meeting. “In today’s society, a majority of the population looks at sexual orientation the same way they look at religion, race, sex, age, marital status, and occupation. And yet, it is perfectly legal in Royal Oak to put up a sign in front of a rental property that says 'No gays.'”
Rasor told commissioners he believes an ordinance strengthens the city's commitment to civil rights and in doing so makes the city stronger and more welcoming for all people who want to live, work or invest here.
"It's a municipal best practice," he said. "This is the best tool we have to ensure we're including best and the brightest."
Passionate pleas
Several residents displayed their passion, vulnerability and sense of humor on the matter during the public comment, which lasted about 50 minutes.
Michael Chetcuti and Kyle Evans—Royal Oak residents, business owners and employers—said they felt very strongly about the issue.
"We hope that you guys make the right decision and be part of a more progressive community like the surrounding communities," Chetcuti told commissioners.
Tara Makar, holding her infant daughter Kennedy, pleaded with commissioners to "be on the right side of history" and make Royal Oak a city her children will not be ashamed to grow up in.
"Look at this face. Do you want to disappoint her?" Makar said, and, as if on cue, the baby started to cry.
"You can't always trust people will do the right thing, otherwise you wouldn't need laws," Makar said.
Royal Oak resident Tom Violante, who founded Holiday Market in 1954, reminded commissioners in 2001 voters crushed a proposal for a human rights ordinance by a 2-1 margin that would have banned discriminatory employment and housing practices.
"It was not Royal Oak's finest hour," Violante said. "There are still members of the LBGT community that won't spend a dime here because of it."
Then choking back tears, Violante recalled how gay relative approached him.
"I looked him straight in the eye, hugged him and I told him I loved him and he was perfect just the way he is," Violante said. "I say it's time to acknowledge the mistakes of the past and work toward a future that does not say you belong or you don't belong."
A 71-year-old resident who identified himself as Jerry said, as he walked to City Hall in the dark, he thought about how lucky he was that no one bothers him and that he feels safe—and then he thought about how gay people have been beat to death, he said.
"We should pass this because it gives the police more power and lets people know we are not going to fool around," he said—adding he doesn't "give a darn" who lives next to him. "As long as when you move into my neighborhood you pick up your yard, I don't care what you do."
Ferndale Mayor Dave Coulter also spoke during public comment. "Royal Oak South," as Coulter jokingly referred to his city, has had a human rights ordinance on the books since 2006. The mayor said he remembered a common argument against the ordinance was concern it would be a drain on public resources.
"I asked our police chief how many cases have involved the police department in the decade or so we have had the ordinance," Coulter said. "He said, 'Zero.' I can tell you the resources spent enforcing it have been none."
Alex Shnaider warned commissioners not to exclude anyone in the ordinance.
"You have to include everybody—members of the minorities and members of the majorities—otherwise we could come across a case of reverse discrimination. So think about it before you do it," he said.
City commission reacts
"Of course we should do this, as so beautifully stated by all the residents who came out tonight. We need to be on the right side of history and make a note that we welcome and respect all kinds of people here in Royal Oak," DuBuc said.
After coming off a particularly nasty campaign season full of insults, Mayor Pro Tem Patricia Capello said she welcomed a ordinance that speaks to tolerance.
Commissioner Peggy Goodwin called it "surprising" that in 2012 there is not federal legislation that covers sexual orientation and marital status among other things.
"This shows that there's equality of all people, which I think we already demonstrate in this city," she said. "But if my colleagues believe we need legislation to back that up, I'm supportive of it."
Commissioner Dave Poulton said he looked forward to seeing the language of the ordinance and giving residents an opportunity to express their opinion on it, one way or another.
For Commissioner Mike Fournier the ordinance was about advancing the human condition and he supported it.
"Tonight I'll go home quietly, enter my children's rooms, kiss them on the forehead, and know that their dad did the right thing tonight."
Mayor Jim Ellison also offered his thoughts on the human rights ordinance.
"I will absolutely be supporting this. I think this is the time. And, certainly the place that we need this ordinance is in the City of Royal Oak."
Ellison said the enactment of the ordinance will likely go unnoticed in the day-to-day lives of residents.
"But I think it will affect those looking to our city as a place to come, a place locate, and a place to do business. It shows we are willing to go the extra mile to protect and invite people into our community."
Thomas Gagne
7:45 am on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
What are some examples of discrimination against "source of income" and "family responsibility?"
Judy Davids
8:15 am on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
A "family responsibility" example would be you provide unpaid caregiving to a parent or a spouse and it is deemed this will cause extra pressure for you at work. See: http://www.governing.com/blogs/view/gov-family-responsibilities-discrimination-laws-being-raised-by-states.html
A "source of income" example would be you are on Social Security or veterans benefits and you are denied housing. See: http://www.equalrightscenter.org/site/PageServer?pagename=issues_sourceincome
Mary Ellen Bell
10:11 am on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Congratulations to the City of Royal Oak for doing absolutely the right thing! We have now joined the ranks of progressive and accepting communities who treat all citizens as equals who deserve fair treatment. I am proud to belong to the Royal Oak community today.
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:43 am on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
I'am in full support of a human rights law for the city of Royal Oak. This is many years past due. It is great to see the city comission come together on such an important issue. I'am very proud to be The Duke of Royal Oak.
A. Chambers
11:57 am on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
I don't have strong feelings one way or another on a human rights ordinance, but I do feel strongly that the city should follow the vote of the residents. Duke, how do you feel about the city commission just ignoring the mandate vote of the people that happened in 2001 on this issue?
LMT
11:51 am on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
This is very arrogant of the city commission. They are ignoring the past vote of the citizens. I'm not arguing against the human rights ordinance. I object to the process. I'm disgusted that the city commission thinks they are smarter and more important than the thousands of citizens who decided this issue in 2001.
If this issue was never put before the voters, I would have no objection that the city impose an ordinance legisilatively. But once it goes before the voters, then the only way to overturn it, should be by the voters.
Rasor said, if the voters don't like it, they can collect signatures and put it on the ballot to overturn. It already was decided by ballot!!
Ronald Wolf
2:30 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Put the shoe on your foot LMT. Suppose a landlord openly told you he or she did not rent to people like you and has that right. You then make a complaint before a city commissionm or the police and they ignore you, or advise you see an attorney. Oh by the way you have purple hair, and a ring in your nose, or you are wearing a yalmalka, have a foreign accent, , or your spouse is the same gender, or a different race. How would you feel?
Not so long ago a common signs read: "We have the right to refuse service" . period, No reason needs to be given,
A. Chambers
2:49 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Ron, ignore the specific issue of Human Rights for a second. Focus on a 7 member body ignoring a vote of the people. That's what the focus should be. This commission is nullifying the vote on this very issue that happened in 2001. Thousands of Royal Oak'ers objected to this ordinance, matter of fact by a 2 to one margin. Why isn't that voter referendum being respected.
Personally, I don't really object to a human rights ordinance, but since the voters have spoken on the issue, I think the way to impliment an ordinace at this point, would be to ask the citizens again. Otherwise, the city commission is just ignoring the citizens who decided this in 2001.
PS.....I agree that the rights of minorities shouldn't be decided by citizen referedum, but since the citizens were polled in 2001, the precedence has been set on this issue.
Thomas Gagne
3:17 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
A. Chambers. Since the city has already voted on this issue I don't believe the commission can unilaterally implement the ordinance--they'll have to put it back before voters.
A. Chambers
4:13 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Not necessarily, Tom. I would have to do some research, or maybe someone else may recall, but it may have been put on the 2001 ballot as an "advisorary" referendum, and was non binding.
Paul Nepote
1:02 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Please share this video from Rochester Hills with everyone you know in the Royal Oak area. Hopefully your town will not make the same mistake Traverse City did. Ever since Traverse City passed the "Gay Rights Ordinance" the homosexual community has become more emboldened and have been acting out, there have been assaults on Christians using the ordinance as a tool to prevent anyone in Traverse City from speaking out against the homosexual lifestyle choice.
http://youtu.be/2fquTyxiR2s
Mark Itall
5:19 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
It was not an advisory referendum, it was up or down for a tax increase. Failed 2-1.
Ronald Wolf
1:55 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Next on the list should be a revision of the Royal Oak Ethics Ordinance to make it perfectly clear that any use of an elected or appointed government position for personal gain is punishable by mandatory resignation. All concerned should submit in advance a letter of resignation to the office of the mayor (including the mayor) if any future conflict of interest is apparent to three or more commissioners.
Since all officials have the right to recuse themselves from a vote this should not be an issue. And yes, the new ordinance should include legal campaign donations in excess of one hundred dollars from an individual, a business, employee of a business, or any combination of the above as probable cause for an ethical conflict.
Very important, is the addition of protection for the homeless, or disabled against undue harassment as evidenced by a complaint of an alleged victim of police harassment that our mayor and council ignored at a recent public forum. A guideline for what is considered as police harassment and what is not would be helpfull to protect all citizens in the future, and I would like to see ourr police department involved it its establishment. This would also help protect the city from lawsuits that could involve allegations of police misconduct.
As far as including civil rights protection for LBGT community in RO, its about time!
Laws are for the protection of all, adendums to affirm civil right inclusivity should NOT have to be placed on the ballot.
Ronald Wolf
3:16 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
A Chambers, we have a mayor who too often when cornered into making a decision one way or the other passes the buck and orders a poll be taken at city expense, or requests that the issue be placed on a ballot.
Meanwhile, we have an ethics ordinance that has obviously been put on the shelf with a situation that has not been cleared up yet. I guess the next election will clear up these issues, or not depending on the weather politically.
Paul Nepote
4:59 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
You are about to make a big mistake if you fall into this gay agenda trap.
Please watch this clip and follow the lead of Rochester Hills.
If you allow this to happen in your town, you will be creating a rift for years to come.
http://youtu.be/2fquTyxiR2s
The Duke of Royal Oak
5:00 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
A. Chambers, The previous ballot vote was over 12 years ago, time to move on dear. The composition of Royal Oak citizens and beliefs have changed in these 12 years. I do not understand if your in support of human rights why you are being so negative. I would like to see what would have happened if the right for woman to vote was put to a vote. A feast at the palace is being planned.
Paul Nepote
6:33 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Anytime you bestow Special Rights in the form of giving homosexuals a protected status, you are, and will continue to, strip other citizens of their right to free speech, religious freedom, and the right to teach your children about the dangers of the homosexual lifestyle choice. You will also be infringing on private property and the rights of bossiness to operate without being hindered by local government.
Paul Nepote
5:01 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
http://youtu.be/2fquTyxiR2s
This is a must see.
A. Chambers
6:11 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Wow! Thanks for posting that link Paul. The Rochester council member in the video must be an attorney. He made a powerful statement. Compare Rochester's city council/attorney member to our commissioner/ attorney member Poulton. It was painful trying to follow Poulton's disjointed comments during this discussion item.
Mary Ellen Bell
4:38 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Why is this a "must see?" It is one guy telling why he is voting against EQUAL rights in Rochester. Your later claims about "special rights" is off track. All our citizens deserve the same treatment as everyone else--iShould be a given. t is sad that we even have to have a vote on it! And false scare tactics about a "ruined" Traverse City won't work on anyone.
Ray Smith
8:27 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
A. Chambers, regarding Poulton's comments on the ordinance: My impression was the he was not in favor of it, but in light of all of the support in the room for it, he felt uncomfortable in saying so.
Paul Nepote
1:01 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Please share this video from Rochester Hills with everyone you know in the Royal Oak area. Hopefully your town will not make the same mistake Traverse City did. Ever since Traverse City passed the "Gay Rights Ordinance" the homosexual community has become more emboldened and have been acting out, there have been assaults on Christians using the ordinance as a tool to prevent anyone in Traverse City from speaking out against the homosexual lifestyle choice.
http://youtu.be/2fquTyxiR2s
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:36 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
Ray Smith, What a statement! Mr. Poulton should speak for himself as he was elected to do, otherwise your statement is heresay and overuled!
Zach Johnson
8:55 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Hi, remember me? I've been around for 276 years and already have it covered. No need for your redundant city ordinance. Signed, the U.S. Constiution.
Stefan
3:11 am on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Hi, remember me? I'm said Constitution that also states that slaves are 3/5th of a person. You probably don't care much for the 13th, 14th, and 15th Amendments either.
Ronald Wolf
7:31 pm on Sunday, November 25, 2012
Check your history Zach ,Slavery, racial and religious segregation, citizenship rights denied to native americans, anti-miscegination laws, no child labor laws, women and blacks not allowed to vote, no Miranda rights, no unions, no social security, no medcare, all under the protection of the US Constitution at one time.
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:43 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
Zach Johnson.The U.S. Constitution has Amendments!
Bill Shaw
9:54 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Thank you Zach...a breath of freash air! Still you must admit, its much more entertaining to watch lawyers and policicians attempt to legislate morality. Lets get back to serious stuff like parking,medical marajuna, open carry, and banning pit bulls. This is all easier than rats, road problems and our dwindling financial condition.
Paul Nepote
1:01 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Please share this video from Rochester Hills with everyone you know in the Royal Oak area. Hopefully your town will not make the same mistake Traverse City did. Ever since Traverse City passed the "Gay Rights Ordinance" the homosexual community has become more emboldened and have been acting out, there have been assaults on Christians using the ordinance as a tool to prevent anyone in Traverse City from speaking out against the homosexual lifestyle choice.
http://youtu.be/2fquTyxiR2s
Ronald Wolf
7:31 pm on Sunday, November 25, 2012
I hope you are being facetious Bill. I mean about Zach being a breath of fresh air.
That this bru ha ha has generated so much vitriolic attention is shamefull. The old saying of the more things change the more they remain the same is still appropriate. If it was your toes that were affected I think you also would take this seriously Bill. Like a stopped clock is right twice in twenty four hours, the city commission can also be right if when political winds are favorable.
I wish both yourself and the commission would get this passionate on improving a certain downtown park, but that is not in the script of their movie, or yours I guess. More parking for the EMagine Theater is more urgent.
The Duke of Royal Oak
12:05 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Bill Shaw, Royal Oak is one of the most stable cities in Michigan and one of the most desirable cities to live in. There are many cities in southeast Michigan that have rats,road problems and dwindling finacial conditons. WOW!
V
11:12 pm on Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Great to hear they passed this resolution to draft an ordinance. It was due a long time ago!
D
12:19 am on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Sounds like Rasor put this on the agenda to drum up more business. Very Sneaky, and we are supposed to trust someone who tried to screwhe city out of parking revenue at Arts, Beats and Eats?
Ronald Wolf
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
Both Paul Napote and Rochester's Mayor Tisdale cherrypick their arguements to cover and justify their own bigotry. While I am not always comfortable with open displays of sexuality, and admit I am an old %&% who still winces at mixed race couples, and gays kissing in public I do realize that my learned prejudices if acted on is biged. A slippery slope that could end with a knock on your door by our American morality police, homegrown versions of the Taliban long exampled by the likes of the Klan, Fr.Coughlin, Farakhan, and David Duke types to name just a few in our past and present.
We only recently have had the right to practice our religion, but not the right to inflict its on others. What goes on behind closed doors between consenting adults is none of our business. Rasor is right, but is a poor choice to carry the flag in this dog fight.
At the times of John Adams and Thomas Jefferson property owining included slave owning.
The Nazis first targeted the mentally handicapped and homosexuals in their deranged plans to purify the Aryan race
For Tisdale to place property rights over civil rights in local courts does a diservice to all those victimized by discrimination. To claim that local courts must defer to higher courts to enforce civil rights a bigoted cop out.
Conversely, there is no obligation tor a city to place gay rights, or any minority's rights in the form to bumper stickers on city vehicles, Tell that to Sweeney.
The Duke of Royal Oak
12:05 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Drum up more business? What
Jules
12:14 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
I'm one of the thousands of people who voted in the majority in 2001 against a Human Rights ordinance. Who on this city commission is representing the thousands of people who voted in the majority on this issue?
Paul Nepote
12:59 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
Please share this video from Rochester Hills with everyone you know in the Royal Oak area. Hopefully your town will not make the same mistake Traverse City did. Ever since Traverse City passed the "Gay Rights Ordinance" the homosexual community has become more emboldened and have been acting out, there have been assaults on Christians using the ordinance as a tool to prevent anyone in Traverse City from speaking out against the homosexual lifestyle choice.
http://youtu.be/2fquTyxiR2s
Mary Ellen Bell
4:38 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
It was 12+ years ago. times change, people are more accepting and tolerant. Hopefully
V
8:40 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012
The homophobic Republicans elected elsewhere in MI to the state legislature.
Ronald Wolf
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
You are so right Jules, humans should not have the right of protection against other humans who outnumber them. Dog eat dog. Right?
The majority rules. Slaves, and non believers have no rights unless we give them rights.
Whose "We" among the thousands by the way?
Is there a salute so we can recognize each other?
Mary Ellen Bell
4:38 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
I notice that most comments against an equal rights ordinance start with "I am not against gays.." and instead claim their argument is that "the people have spoken." The vote was in 2001, nearly 12 years ago. Our elected officials understood that people (okay, most people) are less bigoted and more tolerant and accepting than they were over a decade ago. If you are among those who have not changed, remember that we are all equal and entitled to the same rights and protections.
Chris
5:11 pm on Wednesday, November 21, 2012
So who decides to just ignore the vote of the people in 2001? Put it on the ballot again if you want to know how Royal Oak residents feel. I am extremely uncomfortable in having ANY 7 members of the community, albeit elected, nullify a democratic vote.
It cuts both ways. I would be just as uncomfortable if the city commission was packed with conservatives who ignored the vote of the people to futher their agenda.
Paul Nepote
8:40 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012
I am clearly against creating a special protected class of citizen due solely to their unnatural attraction to people of the same sex. Gay activist are only using this venue to try to overturn Michigan's protection of marriage laws. Just as in every city who has been duped into the oh poor me victim scenario, the homosexuals demanding special rights could not and will not produce one real example of who and why a city should force it's citizens to accept as normal, what every morally straight human being understands. That there is a difference between natures law, and sexual perversion. Eighty percent of prisoners who are now doing time for molesting children identify themselves as homosexuals. Does anyone in their right mind actually believe that a group of people afflicted with an all consuming desire to identify themselves by their sexual desires really need to be "More Equal" than the rest of the population.
Thomas Gagne
4:17 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012
It's not about what the "intention" of the ordinance is, it's what is written in the ordinance. It's important to /read/ the ordinance and if it comes to a vote, consider its potential consequences, specifically regarding the income and family status sections, and what that may mean to lease agreements, loans, in-store credit, private home sales, and other unforeseen side-effects that accompanied NINJa mortgages.that contributed to the 2008 collapse of the financial markets.
V
8:40 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012
Christ, why not? It was all the way in 2001. It's been 11 years since then. If you don't like it, I'm sure you'll sign the new petition for a plebiscite against this expansion anyway - whether you admit it or not.
R.Harrington
12:10 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012
Since he citizens already voted on this issue in 2001 and resoundedly turned down a human rights ordinance, it stands to reason that those who want to now enforce a human rights ordinance collect the signatures to put in on the ballot for another vote, not the other way around.
Ronald Wolf
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
Well expressed Mary and since there are so many Neanderthals still resisting the inclusion of the LGBT community in blood paid rights only demonstrates the need for local legislation aimed at those who feel they have a "G-d given" right to discriminate in practice as well as belief.
Hate crimes are heinious and need a specific laws to reduce them.
V
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
R.Harrington,
Unless that's the procedure state laws, the city charter or city acts demand, the city council has the right to pass what the majority of them consider necessary.
Mary Ellen Bell
4:17 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012
I think people need to Google this Paul Nepote guy and his actions and comments in Traverse City......before you listen to his comments here. Royal Oak should in no way be associated with discrimination. Royal Oak is known for being progressive and accepting of ALL people!
Paul Nepote
9:13 am on Friday, November 23, 2012
Traverse City’s Culture War
Gay activism is what's wrong with the system and the culture of Traverse City as a whole. When someone has offered a civil solution that universally resolves most issues, now and for generations to come. The gay community, rather than agree to disagree, feel the need to tack on the label of "bigot" without knowing anything about them. You are the same as the others who label homosexuals as fags and queers because they are different. This is not the first time I have noted such intolerance in Traverse City’s gay community, a group that demands tolerance. Looks like your sexual preference doesn't change the essential human failing of hypocrisy. Find a mirror. You're a bully too
V
8:40 pm on Thursday, November 22, 2012
Thank you for pointing this out. Just looked at Paul Nepote's facebook page - Yikes!
Paul Nepote
6:09 am on Friday, November 23, 2012
Local activists who couldn’t wait to exhibit their same sex attraction in public, and sport their like us or else attitude have really toned down their act after encountering the pushback they fueled with the Special Rights ordinance. Many of the homosexuals inhabiting city hall as employees or members of boards and commissions are now denying their orientation when asked directly.
Thanks to the efforts of Traverse City business owners, Christian parents, and Bill Wiesner’s excellent educational video series “Truth Academy about Homosexuality”, school children are beginning to question the pro-homosexual propaganda that TCAPS, and our local print media have been spoon feeding the folks in and around Traverse City.
No one who draws a paycheck from the school system, local print media, or government, can seem to find the courage to tell our children of the dangers of the so called “Gay” lifestyle they promote.
Rather then protecting children from the one and a half percent of the population who celebrate same sex perversions, homosexuals are indoctrinating children starting in elementary school by using bright colored graphics such as rainbows, flowers, puppies, and even Music. By using words that promote feelings of trust and compassion, such as diversity, and acceptance, homosexual activist try to lure children into their dark and secret lifestyle. Never do these people share the well documented horrors of the lifestyle they are promoting.
Judy J
9:12 am on Friday, November 23, 2012
I feel I must step into this conversation and respond to Paul Nepote. My first question is, how and why have you picked both Royal Oak and Traverse City as your pulpit for anti-gay bias? In which of these cities do you reside full time? My second question is why do you persist in spouting hatred against a group, and the equal rights they seek, especially as these protections would have no impact on anything in your own life other than to bother your "morals" and prejudices. My third question is where do you get these so-called facts and statistics you continue to set forth in print that are so blatantly erroneous they would be laughable if not so filled with venom. My fourth question is, do you actually believe that educators, puppies and flowers will lure children to the "dark and secret lifestyle" of being gay? If so, please contact your local mental health association. Last, I implore the Patch to remove Mr. Nepote's postings, as this forum is no place for such hatred and lies.
Thomas Gagne
2:30 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012
Judy, are you actually requesting someone's opinions be censored because you don't agree with them? There are all kinds of people I wish would shut up but to request they be silenced is not tolerance and is not diverse. Diversity isn't about reading, hearing, and sharing just the opinions you agree with. That type of diversity is both superficial and intolerant.
Paul Nepote
2:30 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012
First of all I am a full time resident of Traverse City, I grew up in Flint, and spent a considerable amount of time in Royal Oak. Between my uncles home in Royal Oak, and the Detroit Zoo, I have many fond memories of Royal Oak. I have been a family values activist for many years startiing in 2001 when the Traverse City Human Rights Commission tried to place Gay Pride Flag bumper stickers on police, fire, public works, and public school buses. All of my facts are 100 percent accurate. I do not hate all homosexuals, however I have learned all of the tricks used by gay activist groups, to sugar coat the facts about the dangers of your lifestyle choice. Homosexuals have all of the very same rights as any other citizen of the United States, there is no need for anyone to be " More Equal " because of their sexual abnormalities. The facts are, a very large percent of homosexuals were molested as children, which is inexcusable, but studies have shown that victims of sexual violence very often go on to commit the same acts that they had to endure. After speaking at a City Commission Meeting, and voicing my opposition to Special Rights for any group, I received death threats, my children were threatened, the local gay friendly newspaper tried to discredit me personally in the eyes of my community. I quickly became aware of who the haters, and bigots really were. I hope Royal Oak has the guts to follow Rochester Hills example in how to respond to the homosexualist demands.
The Duke of Royal Oak
12:05 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Judy J. Well said.
Ray Smith
9:22 am on Friday, November 23, 2012
I've noticed through the years that many of those who spew hated toward gays are gay themselves, but are either in denial or in the closet.
R.Harrington
12:10 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012
Hey Ray, how about addressing just ignoring the 2001 vote results. Do we now just start ignoring voting results that are 10 years or older? When do we ignore the results of an election, and when do we let them stand. Do you see the problem with starting a precedent of ignoring voting results. Why are the politicians and some supporters afraid to put this question before the voters (again)?
Ray Smith
4:27 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012
R. Harrington, if you're so adamant that the City should not ignore the 2001 vote results, start a petition to get it back on the ballot. Unless someone does, it looks like the HRO will pass easily. Further, judging from Public Comment at the recent City Commission meeting, the majority of RO citizens are in favor of it. Only one or two were against the idea.
R.Harrington
5:36 pm on Friday, November 23, 2012
Ray, don't be ridiculous. Are you sugggesting that you have a better handle on what people want based on a few that came to public comment versus a vote of the people?
My argument is that the commission is ignoring a vote of the citizentry. Ray, can you give me examples of when, and when not, a vote that was taken should be ignored? That's the dangerous ground I'm worried about.
If votes are going to be ignored, then why bother voting. Ray.
Finally, since this has already been voted on, the onus should be on the non-prevailing side to collect signatures to re-poll the citizens, NOT on the side that prevailed.
V
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
Is this a requirement on the books? No? Then city council can do as it pleases.
Thomas Gagne
8:21 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
V., the requirement is on the books.
In the city charter, chapter 6, section 10, referring to ordinances voted on by the residents, it reads, "Any ordinance adopted under this Charter, by electoral vote, cannot be repealed or amended, except by electoral vote."
This means that any ordinance may not be passed or repealed by the city commission after it has already been voted on by the electorate. This is common language in municipal ordinances and state constitutions.
http://www.ci.royal-oak.mi.us/portal/webfm_send/454
V
8:04 pm on Saturday, November 24, 2012
Thomas Gagne,
Please, reread what you wrote. The voters did not adopt an ordinance back in 2001. They rejected one. Therefore, this particular chapter and section do not apply. So, electoral vote is not necessary.
Mark Itall
5:35 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
V, your interpretation is correct. The ordinance was rejected, not adopted, so that language does not apply.
Ray Smith
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
R. Harrington, deciding whether or not to discriminate against certain groups of people should not require a "vote," it only requires courage to do what's right. And that's precisely what the city commission did last Monday. I'm sorry you feel differently.
Sam S.
1:49 pm on Saturday, November 24, 2012
Is ignoring the vote of the people right? The people spoke in this issue in 2001. If you want to ask the voters again, I'm alright with that. I am not alright with ignoring the election results of 2001.
J. Lubansky
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
I agree with R. Harrington about ignoring the results of a past election. It rings hollow to say the citizens have changed their position on the issue without polling them again.
It is totally undemocratic to just unilaterially throw out the results of a past election. Stuff like that happens in underdeveloped third world countries where dictators control the government.
V
8:25 pm on Saturday, November 24, 2012
We live in a representative democracy. We elect politicians to make certain decisions for us. And this is precisely what they are doing. Go democracy!
L. Sutton
2:26 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
V-
Please explain democracy in "your world" where the results of a vote of the citizens is ignored. If all the supporters of this ordinance is so confidant it has broad support, why are they reluctant to put it in front of the residents (again).
V
5:02 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
L.Sutton,
Because we don't believe in putting the rights of our friends, neighbors and family members up for a vote. Unlike the opponents of the proposed ordinance (like you and Mr. Nepote believe).
Ronald Wolf
6:06 am on Saturday, November 24, 2012
Every community has the right to defend itself Paul. Your "one hundred percent" lies only serve to invite threats from thugs who are wrong in personalizing their anger towards those like yourself with opposite and equally narrow beliefs.
I am not surprised there are gays who discriminate against heterosexuals especially in timess of hatered and mistrust. Years ago I had a friend who told me he could not get an apartment in the Castro district of San Francisco without a reference from a gay friend. It seems "they" are also human with failings.. We all have long memories.
Paul Nepote
4:40 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
Well boys & Girls, those who feel that the world has evolved, like Obama's real feelings about same sex marriage, are either blowing smoke up your skirt or, self medicating. As I mentioned at the beginning of this discussion, the demands of the gay's and homosexualists in TC to burden the business and lay community with unnecessary laws is nothing more than a group of progressives with a solution to a nonexistent problem. As you can see by the response to this article, the thought police will never change the way real families feel about a lifestyle which thrives on dangerous behavior and leads to the physical destruction of one's mind and body. These actions are just another sad attempt to force, who you refer to as breeders, to accept same sex attraction as a normal part of human sexuality. When the seven frightened little men vote to add language to a new ordinance protecting gays, you will note have done one good thing to promote understanding, you will have widened the gap. Our City Manager has a official complaint before him, which has been on his desk for 5 and a half months and the only action being taken, is to find reasons not to deal with it. So much for your local government doing anything to effect change, other then give it quivering lip service.
Good Luck Royal Oak, your going to need it.
Mary Ellen Bell
7:51 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
I feel sad for the level of hateful bigotry shown here, the reasons behind it and the attempt to rationalize it by calling equal treatment of all "special rights" for some. I am part of "a real family" and I do not hate or discriminate against others. Nor have I observed this "physical destruction" and "dangerous behavior" of which you speak. The gay couples I have observed or met are all stable people in loving relationships, friendly and caring homeowners, great neighbors, some raising families who would make any parent proud. Everyone should be treated fairly whether you agree with their lifestyle or not. It is pitiable that anyone demeans a relationship based on common interests and affection by suggestiong that partnerships are based solely on sexuality, which homophobes tend to do. And if fair treatment in housing, jobs, education, and legal stautus requires protection from bigots, then it is, in fact, a necessity---not a non-existent problem, obviously. If kindness, acceptance and equality causes you any consternation or distress, then I would look inward toward your own buried demons, rather than attacking those of us who choose to defend the rights of gay friends, neighbors and families from zealots.
The Duke of Royal Oak
12:09 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Same sex attractions is normal. It is not protection, but equality. And you can keep your luck, would not want it!
Raven Dad
8:04 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
I am all for a human rights ordinance.
Paul Nepote
11:06 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
Ms Bell,
I commend you for your activism, I also have gay friends that rank on top of what a real kind and caring friend should be. However they really dislike being used and politicized by the radical activists who have brought Royal Oak to this discussion. They have no interest in marriage, or using their place in the community to qualify for the same benefits given to married couples with children. One of my close gay friends, a local Doctor refers to many of the gay couples who have obtained children, as gays collecting kids as pets. He feels they really think that being able to be seen in public with children qualifies them as a loving and normal family. Lets face it, the pending ordinance is not about employment, or housing, its about obtaining the financial goodies from the government that should be only given to the pairing of one man one woman. No one wants to watch two burly gay guys making out at the next table while taking their children and grandparents to the Olive Garden to celebrate, what started out to be a special occasion, and now walking out leaving half of their meal behind. The advertizements showcasing gay couples usually depict two good looking young men holding hands while lovingly gazing into each others eyes. Why not be realistic, why not picture the two of them in a stall of a public restroom with their trousers around their ankles and one of the pair standing in a shopping bag just in case people using the public restroom are counting feet?
The Duke of Royal Oak
5:02 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Paul Nepote- You sound exactly like the high priest and pharises in the bible. Your comment of "goodies from the goverment only going to the pairing of one man and woman" is hilarious to say the least. With heterosexual divorce rate over 50%, that is such a good job on the SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE!
Mark Itall
5:35 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Paul,
Consider that the last behavior, accurately described, is a result of them being marginalized, criminalized and prosecuted.
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:36 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012
Mary Ellen Bell- Very wise, informed and educated comment.
Ronald Wolf
5:02 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Paul have you ever heard the expression TMI, are you are you in the closet?
In any case, substitute the tern "gay" with any race, creed, or religion and your sight would be removed in a New York second . Only a drooling rabid homophobe users descriptive stereotypes like you do. In fact you sound like the "Tokyo Rose" of homophobes.
Ever think that these same people you attack may have contributed to designing your clothes, the car you drive, the songs you hum or whistle, the theater and movies you watch, or the comic books you nio doubt still read? No doubt there are those who abuse children. I would like to think that a committed couple would not permit that to happen, gay or straight.Those like yourself are the problem, not them.
I do not understand why this site continues to publish undisguised hatred. Maybe the problem is that your own parents treated you as a pet. A very spoiled one at that.
Judy please discontinue this site, it is unproductive and just provides a forum for his hatred, whose next? There are more important topics to discuss in RO. like political ethics, accountability, and public safety.
Paul Nepote
11:22 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Ronnie Boy,
I sure do understand the contributions sodomites have contributed to our culture. Let me give you two wonderful examples of contributors in the Traverse City area. The first is a well know architect and lover of rare musical instruments, such as the actual piano that George Gerswin performed the first original debut of Rhapsody in Blue on. He also was the founder of the Music House Museum, just a few miles North of TC. Unfortunately for him, he was convicted of continually raping a 13 year old boy. On the day he was to appear in court for sentencing he unbuckled his seat belt and, right in front of the West Side Burger King, accelerated, crossed the center line and hit a Cement Truck head on killing him instantly.
He was one of TC's most outstanding gay's at that time.
Next we have a very well know Graphic Artist, and founder of Byte Communications. He and his company design signage for city's all over the country. He was a pioneer in the "Way Finding" business, and had orders from major institutions such as colleges, medical centers,shopping malls and so on. He was caught sodomizing two very young boys in the town of Suttons Bay, just North of Traverse City. Oh did I mention he was very active in our local Equality and a big contributor to the local group who convinced the City Commission to pass our Special Gay Rights ordinance. By the way he is now in prison, hopefully learning the truth of " What you do will turn around and bite you in the ass".
Judy J
7:59 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Mr. Wolf--you are correct, I need to stop reading this stuff. The salicious, detailed descriptions of sex acts in bathrooms has little to do with reality and much to do with bigoted, uninformed, tormented souls obviously in need of help. We can only pity these people and move on to live our lives with love and compassion. I am pleased at the recent news that Royal Oak is a highly desirable place to live, the fact that hew homes are built and then purchased within days, and that my hometown is a vibrant and welcoming place for all. For those who spew such venom, I will pray for you and hope you move past this psychological illness to see the good in the world instead of focusing on the disgusting negatives you perceive. Peace
The Duke of Royal Oak
8:22 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Judy J- Great perspective and very kind hearted. So refreshing to hear kindness.
Paul Nepote
2:37 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Judy J,
There are at least 1800 caring loving people in my town, who for years refused to get evolved . We tried to ignore the few homosexuals who on rare occasions would act out, and justified looking the other way by reciting the old saying " live and let live ". While we were looking away, and not paying attention to local politics, there were things happening to our city that one just could not ignore. The first thing that really caught my attention was the closing of one of the most beautiful scenic lookouts and picnic areas in the state. Next two of my favorite nature areas in Grand Traverse County were closed. When a group who were active in the Boy Scouts of America, and the Boy's and Girl's Clubs looked into the loss of these public lands to our use and enjoyment we were finally told by MDOT and the State Police, that those areas had to be closed due to homosexual activity that the State Police and Sheriff's Department could no longer keep under controll due to a lack of personal. Local families and visitors had made an alarming amount of verifiable complaints. Before closing those areas the authorities placed signs warning visitors of the danger at these parks. The homosexual backers complained, so the signs were removed and the parks were permanently closed. This has nothing to do with hatred or homophobia, it had to do with protecting children and common sense. Tell me again why this same group should be given Special Protective Status in Royal Oak?
The Duke of Royal Oak
7:59 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
I believe that this discussion on Equal Rights is relevent and should not be shut down by the editor. This exposes the hatred and evil that still exisist by some people and the Republican/Tea Party's true platform. This has inspired me to make a donation to www.hrc.org which fights for Equal Rights for the homosexual community. Donating to the Human Rights Campaign or a local organization that defends the homosexual community against this exact hatred is a good way to fight this hatred.
The Duke of Royal Oak
5:04 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Paul Nepote, you forgot Jerry Sandusky. I did not seen Penn State closing or heterosexuals being persecuted for the act.
Mary Ellen Bell
8:22 am on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
You are right, Duke! let's keep this in the open so we can identify those who hate and stop them. I am writing my check now.
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:14 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Sending my check in also, Mary. We can identify that hatred and evil are still alive, but cannot "stop them", unfortunatley. It must be a sad existence! Being a devout practicing Catholic, I do not understand the hatred and evil that people use in the name of God,Jesus and religion. Catholicism teaches love and humility!
Thomas Gagne
8:38 am on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
"Catholicism teaches love and humility!"
People who haven't read the bible or studied Catholicism shouldn't comment on it.
Paul Nepote
2:37 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Thanks for the note Paul.
It must be a sad existence to constantly try and make acceptable a lifestyle that will never be so.
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:14 pm on Tuesday, November 27, 2012
THE WORK GOES ON,
THE CAUSE ENDURES,
THE HOPE STILL LIVES
AND THE DREAMS SHALL NEVER DIE. Senator Edward Kennedy
Judy J
7:36 am on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
I am appalled and disgusted by Mr. Nepote's fixation on sex and his oddly disturbing detailed descriptions of if as if sex is the only thing that defines a relationship. SAD. But you have CROSSED THE LINE by connecting child rape to gay men. Homosexuality and pedophilia and molestation are very different things. Do not spread your bigotry by trying to connect them. I reject your claim of having gay friends as no one could befriend someone who so obviously hates them. Please stay in TC and leave RO alone--I can find another vacation spot that does not include toxic residents. Here's the thing; as much as I loathe your attitude and hatred, I do not hate you (pity, yes), and I will pray every day that you find enough peace within yourself to end this evil rhetoric and get some help toward becoming a compassionate person. Go to church and say a prayer, sir, for God loves all his children even if you do not. You are in my prayers.
The Duke of Royal Oak
11:42 am on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Thomas Gagne- Could'nt agree with you more.
Ronald Wolf
2:06 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
I have come to the conclusion that Paul is on to something. We can solve his problem and multiple other world problems by "spaying" the next generation. Maybe Paul will volunteer to be the first.
Paul Nepote
2:58 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Ron, Why don't you get real. I have four Sons and six Grandsons, I guess in your world that makes me a breeder. If you were to rid the world of those who live by natures design, there would not be a next generation. Unfortunately you need breeders to, on occasion, present you homo's with a few sexual deviant replacements. If the majority had their way, someone would actually verify a "Gay Genetic Marker" which would prove your claim that we were all "Born That Way", it sure would boost the business at the abortion clinics.
The Duke of Royal Oak
5:04 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
The attitude of Paul is the same as Hitler and the Nazis, the world stood up against this evil.
Paul Nepote
3:45 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Royal Oak, Please don't waste your time and money, the State is going to make such ordinances null and void soon.
HOUSE BILL No. 5039
We have not lost a thing to Traverse City voters who supported our existing Non-Discrimination Ordinance, as well as in other Michigan cities. Traverse City’s “No Special Rights” group with the help of their friends, the House Republicans, and with the encouragement and support of Gary Glenn (AFA, Michigan) now are in the process of making it illegal for Traverse City and other units of local government to pass or enforce local laws which include “sexual orientation and gender identity”. HB 5039 reads, "A State agency of local government shall not adopt any ordinance, rule, regulation, or policy that includes as a protected class, any classification not specifically included as a protected class under this act, any existing ordinance, rule, regulation, or policy that includes, as a protected class, any classification not specifically included as a protected class under this act is void." So folks, the war rages on. We are going to need all of the citizens who are opposed to Traverse City’s “Gay Special Rights Ordinance”, to support this bill. This ballot will be state wide and not hindered by the boundaries of Traverse City. History shows us that all pro-homosexual agenda items brought to the voters statewide are easily defeated at the ballot box.
The Duke of Royal Oak
5:04 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
"Thus, the controversy about the Moral Majority arises not only from its views, but from its name which, in the minds of many, seems to imply that only one set of public policies is moral and only one majority can possibly be right." ...... Senator Edward Kennedy
Mr. Smith N. Wesson
9:01 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Dude, you lose credibility every time you quote a guy like Ted Kennedy. He should be held accountable for the death of Mary Jo Kopechne. Never forget the Chappaquidick incident. It's like quoting Josef Mengele.
The Duke of Royal Oak
10:26 am on Thursday, November 29, 2012
Mr. Smith N. Wesson, With your permission I will quote whom I wish. Dude!
Lianne Mathie
5:16 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Hey Paul,
There's a nice little church group you should join. It's call Westboro Baptist. They would LOVE you.
Lianne Mathie
5:35 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Just came across this article, makes for informative reading, always like to know where people come from. I'm not surprised, sadly.
http://www.northernexpress.com/michigan/article-912-with-all-my-hate-pau.html
Paul Nepote
9:14 pm on Thursday, November 29, 2012
Lianne,
I am glad you brought up this hit piece in the northern express, I eluded to this in a earlier post, when I said that the homosexual activist's tried to discredit me with my community. Queer Traverse City Commissioner Jim Carruthers was really pissed when I turned in the signatures on a referendum petition that put the gay special rights ordinance on the ballot. You can believe what you want but you will never know how inaccurate the story was. The only people that got hurt was the Northern Express. The owner apologized to me and allowed me to write a complete editorial and he published it along with a personal "sorry". That hit job helped me raise more money then all my connections with the business community. Even the local newspaper, who is the most gay friendly publication in northern Michigan, commented on the ethics of that publication. Thank you for helping me prove my point, that homosexual political activist's are the most hateful, dishonest,divisive, and desperate people on the face of the earth.
The Duke of Royal Oak
10:26 am on Thursday, November 29, 2012
Lianne- Also thanks for the link. What a sick person. This does not suprise me, this week on Ricki Lake she interviewed the son of Fred Phelps of Westboro church another anti gay radical chrisitian. Fred's two sons escaped from their home to get away from his abuse.
Judy J
8:03 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Lianne--Thank you for posting this link; I have done some research on this man which resulted in alarming information, but did not find this. Now I am even more shocked--this certainly explains a lot! It is definitely frightening that this thing exists.
Ronald Wolf
9:01 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Paul, If you read what I had written you would notice that I am not on the defensive. And yes there are gays married with children and grandchildren.
An aunt of mine giviing me an education once said that homosexuality is a "weakness".
Its not anything of the sort, not a moral lapse or a crime unless an adult is involved with a minor, or someone is raped I amt tired of having it thrown in our face in the media incessantly. You cannot fight biology. There is no clear division when it comes to sexuality(genotype vs phenotype). You or I could be lesbians trapped in a man's body. In other words your phenotype may may not reflect your genotype.
You are correct that parents need to educate kids about sexual predators especially dangerous male( as opposed to female) pedophiles whom could be pillars of their community, anybody.
Gone are the days when you could pat a child on the head, or put your hand on his or her shoulder to pay a compliment and that is a shame.
A study of a contaiined mouse population beginning with an" Adam and Eve" pair demonstrated that after about seven years of breeding families resulting in overpopulation there was akso a dramatic increase in mental illness (isollation), bachelor mouse promiscuity, homosexuality, and eventually al loss of interest in reproducing.
Though individually physically sleek and strong the entire population died off one by oner despite the best care and feeding. Conclusion?
Mr. Smith N. Wesson
10:13 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012
We're doomed! LOL
The Duke of Royal Oak
10:26 am on Thursday, November 29, 2012
Oh Dear!
Judy Davids
9:11 pm on Thursday, November 29, 2012
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