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VIDEO: Balloons Released in Honor of Royal Oak Siblings

Students, teachers, parents, friends and family gathered at a Royal Oak Middle School football game to remember the lives of Jordan and Ashley Siegel.

Tears and laughs were shared Wednesday afternoon as students, teachers, friends and family gathered at a Bulldogs football game at Royal Oak Middle School to participate in a balloon release to honor the lives of Jordan, 14, and Ashley, 11, Siegel.

The Siegel children were tragically killed in a crash along southbound U.S. 23 in Pittsfield Township on June 22.

Christie Siegel, the children's mother, cheered on the Bulldogs from the stands wearing Jordan's No. 10 practice jersey. Jordan was the Bulldogs' quarterback the last two years.

Last week, the ROMS student council sold memorial cards as a fundraiser for the Jordan and Ashley Siegel Scholarship Fund. The memorial cards were an opportunity to write a note to the Siegel family. For each memorial card sold, a balloon was released.

"I have been told the note cards are very personal and touching," Siegel said. "They were going to put them on display but didn't because they were so personal."

Siegel was overwhlemed by number of supporters that attended the game. She was joined by Marc Siegel, of Novi, on the football field where the parents were presented with Jordan's No. 10 game jersey. The players will wear red stickers on their helmets in his honor all season long.

The Royal Oak Chargers and Chiefs cheerleaders also participated in Wednesday's tribute. Many of the girls were visibly moved when students entered the stadium carrying a photograph of the siblings. Ashley was a Chargers cheerleader.

A.J. Carter, the president of the ROMS student council, gave brief remarks at game.

"I am sure we all know what happened on that tragic day. We lost our fellow Bulldogs Jordan and Ashley. They were so nice and kind to everyone they met. They touched so many people's lives so many different ways," Carter said. "They will never be forgotten. Once a Bulldog, always a bulldog."

A moment of silence was observed as 500 balloons were released.

The students raised more than $600 for the Jordan and Ashley Siegel Scholarship Fund, which was established by family and friends to give scholarships to children in the Royal Oak area who can’t afford to play sports.

canseeallsides October 4, 2012 at 02:02 am
I cannot put into words the sorrow we feel for your losses. God be with you.
On a much less important note but still needing to be said; Balloon releases are so bad on so many levels. I am surprised to see this tribute idea being used. According to the Michigan Environmental Council, which coordinated one recent beach clean-up event where volunteers picked up more than 4,500 discarded balloons along the shores of Lake Michigan, the solution to the problem is simple: “Don’t participate in balloon releases, don’t use balloons as decorations during outside events, and when you hear of a balloon release being organized, inform the organizers that what they are doing is littering.” http://www.google.com/search?q=releasing+balloons+so+bad
Kim October 4, 2012 at 01:16 pm
It needed to be said here? Your disapproval of balloon releases needed to be campaigned as a comment on this story? Prefacing your enviornmental data with condolences does not make it acceptable. The loss of Jordan & Ashley is a tragedy. Their friends, family, and community are grieving. May I suggest that you learn to nurture the human spirit first.
canseeallsides October 4, 2012 at 01:56 pm
Apparently... yes. Tragedy shouldn't validate more death and destruction. Sensitivity is calming but it can't blind simple sense. I am certain they will grieve with or without my "unacceptable" comment. My hope is people thinking this a nice inspirational way to do a tribute become aware and do not do it. Obviously no one said anything during the balloon release that gave them this idea. I am sorry if sharing facts in a public forum offended you.
Erich Von Zipper October 4, 2012 at 02:11 pm
Cansee - Next you can tell us that funeral processions waste a lot of gasoline and cause an increase in green house gases.
Mark H. Stowers October 4, 2012 at 03:34 pm
The balloons were made of biodegradable material. This was thought out by everyone on every level.
Judy Davids (Editor) October 4, 2012 at 06:00 pm
I would like to thank ROMS and Siegel families for allowing me to be there with you to cover this event. It was an honor. The event very touching and the money raised stays in our community to help kids. I am very proud to call myself a Royal Oaker.
canseeallsides October 4, 2012 at 08:40 pm
Not every level if the balloons were released and not collected. You are rationalizing which makes it "ok" for you but not in reality. Latex takes at least six months to decompose and in that time animals choke and drains get plugged. The comparison of a funeral procession is easily dismissed because the body needs to be transported. This is unnecessary and creates another sadness.
Tammy October 4, 2012 at 08:46 pm
It was a very emotional experience, for the kids and parents in attendance. Thank you to the ROMS staff, parents and students for their work on this tribute.
Reddest Wing October 5, 2012 at 12:52 pm
Wow..there's always one that has to disguise their agenda in some pseudo sympathy...this isn't the time or the place for this. Move on, troll.
canseeallsides October 5, 2012 at 03:35 pm
Emotions make people and groups do rash things, it doesn't make it an acceptable excuse to harm. I simply expressed an additional feeling of sorrow and I am not hiding anything. Trolling is off-topic and for the only reason as to anger, I am merely trying to inform and remove obvious ignorance to a danger (right in the title of the post). Your comment has no topical info, feeling or sympathy and is only trolling against my awareness. It's ok to be sad or angry but it doesn't validate harm. I will though move on as the message has been heard.
Sarah October 5, 2012 at 08:00 pm
Please remember that as stated above, the balloon release used biodegradable balloons. These balloons will take no longer to decompose than an oak leaf. You really "can't see all sides" if you are closed minded to people's grief (especially those of family and children) during this time of incredible loss.
canseeallsides October 5, 2012 at 09:07 pm
These are actually misleading lies by the balloon industry. Latex will only decompose that fast if in sunlight. and SO much damage happens in that 6 months it takes, which I clearly already stated. Please just educate yourself, then ignorance and misinformation cannot be your excuse. Latex lasts for years in the shade or if its even wet. So if you care to debate the facts... maybe start a new post as to not offend any sensibilities. Or spend a weekend clearing up the shore and you will NEVER be so ignorant again! The fact that you compared it to an oak leaf shows where you got your info, from a BALLOON BUSINESS... just wow.
canseeallsides October 5, 2012 at 09:11 pm
It takes an open mind to risk saying the right thing even when not popular. If you are trying to convince me that tragedy somehow makes it ok to harm the earth or a pass on using sense, sorry I disagree.
#1 tigers fan October 5, 2012 at 09:53 pm
LATEX BALLOONS WERE NOT USED IN THE ROMS BALLOON RELEASE!!!!! Biodegradable balloons were used which decompose quickly. Get YOUR facts straight!
canseeallsides October 5, 2012 at 10:01 pm
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/biodegradable-balloons.html
(all biodegradable balloons are made from polymer which is... LATEX!) I always get MY facts straight before wasting time posting them (HINT HINT).
canseeallsides October 5, 2012 at 10:20 pm
You have forced me to list more facts:
"THE BALLOON COUNCIL" IS A MARKETING GROUP and their studies and claims are dangerously wrong. Best worded information please read; http://thelearningplanet.wordpress.com/tag/balloons/ "Outright hostility" is common during a sensitive time or a mistake but this doesn't change the truth or your responsibility. WARNING VERY GRAPHIC: pictures are worth 1,000 words; http://balloonsblow.org/photo-gallery
canseeallsides October 5, 2012 at 10:22 pm
"A known psychological phenomenon is to notice only positive messages (‘safe’, ‘green’, ‘fun’) and not heed the negative messages (‘threat’, ‘deaths’, ‘pollution’) even if the latter are supported with more evidence and authoritative voices. Combine this phenomenon with the positive group emotions (or perhaps sensitivities around bereavement or illness) linked to balloon events and you have a heady mix. Once people have the idea of doing a balloon release and they’ve told others they will do it, they feel it is worse to let down people by doing something otherwise than it is to potentially kill wildlife. The majority of requests to find an alternative activity are met with passive aggression (‘it’s not my fault – we’re doing it for the children’) or outright hostility (actually, I won’t quote some of the abusive things that have been said to campaigners like Andy Mabbett)."
Sounds exactly like whats blocking your common sense. http://thelearningplanet.wordpress.com/tag/balloons/
Judy Davids (Editor) October 6, 2012 at 11:31 am
I think you have made your point canseeallsides. Thank you for your input.
This comment stream will now only accept comments on the topic, which is remembering the lives of Jordan and Ashley Siegel.
Reddest Wing October 6, 2012 at 01:46 pm
Thank you for stepping in, Judy. This thread has spiraled into nonsense. Anyway...what a wonderfully touching tribute it was, my thoughts and prayers have been, and will continue to be with the Siegel family.

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